HANS VERPLAK (Johannes Josephus Maria)
  • DEC 2015 (Hans aan Antoon)
    Vrijheid is belangrijk.

  • Did a lot of shit stirring between Hanny and Topy (and the family in New Zealand as a whole), and again between Hanny and Antoon.
    • Hans met de sigaar
    		BORN: 25/03/1951 (Nijmegen)
    Immigrated to New Zealand and Australia, returned to Netherlands.

    RESIDENCE:
    Weezenhof 6211, 6536AN Nijmegen, Netherlands.

    OCCUPATION:
    Webmaster (nijmegenonline.nl)

    MARRIAGES:
    Never married (3 children from 3 ladies)
    Timmeke, Rita, ? (Hans doesn't share much information)

    FACEBOOK:
    www.facebook.com/arjen.vanzanten.14 (hans.verplak - male)
    www.facebook.com/hans.verplak.9 (Johan Verplak - female)
    Foto taken during a trip to Spain with Pa, Hans and Antoon. One of the highlights were Hans' refusal to stop anywhere to take a closer look at one of the many castles we passed. En maar doorjutteren.

    What Antoon remembers most are the 3-hour siesta breaks in Spain...

    We also inspected some new houses Pa was interested in buying, and possibly moving to Spain (to enjoy the much nicer weather compared to the Netherlands).

    Michael & Wendy's house in Glenlyon, Victoria
    		The three brothers in Michael & Wendy's house (Glenlyon, Victoria), in happier times. Now virtually all communication has stopped.
    Hans in Nijmegen, Netherlands.
    		Hans in zijn hangstoel.
    Life Experiences
    Netherlands, New Zealand, Australia. Lived in Netherlands most of his life after having spent some time in New Zealand and in Australia.

    Did an overland trip from Australia to Netherlands, spending time along the way in Nimbin (Queensland) then through countries including Vietnam, Laos, Nepal.

    Education
    Kleuter Klas / Bewaar School (Kindergarten)
    Lagere School
    Hogere School
    MULO
    ULO (Electrical)

    Diplomas
    Fiets Diploma (Bicycle Riding)
    VVV Diploma (Vereniging Voor Veilig Verkeer) Traffic Rules Diploma

    Employment
    Television Technician (Noel Lemings, Christchurch, New Zealand)
    Webmaster (Nijmegen Online, Netherlands)

    Religion
    Grew up as member of the Catholic Church
    Various others

    Other interests
    Medical instruments
    Homeopathy
    Rudolf Steiner philosophy
    Egotism

    Wikipedia:
    The egotist has an overwhelming sense of the centrality of the 'Me', that is to say of their personal qualities. Egotism means placing oneself at the core of one's world with no concern for others, including those "loved" or considered as "close", in any other terms except those subjectively set by the egotist.

    ABOUT HANS:
    • Calls at inappropriate times, even when asked to give notice in advance, and starts arguments
    • Fails to reply to correspondence from family (except when it is important to HIM)
    • Meddles in family relations
    • Refuses dialog with Antoon
    • Belittles Antoon with his 'knowledge' what happens after his death
    On 24 February 2014 Antoon received a letter from the PMT in the Netherlands which was dated February 2013, and included an advise that he would receive a further latter in June 2013. The letter has been lying around for a year!!!
    AN OPEN LETTER FROM ANTOON TO HANS
    (A lifetime of hostilities)

    Dear brother,

    So you may understand... You brought this girl Franky with you to Australia. But once again you gave her no committment (but we all understand your reasons to return to the Netherlands).

    This time it was me who encountered the wrath of YOUR scorned woman by playing us up against each other (see story further down this page). You fell for her trap, dragging your own brother with it. But you never wanted to talk about it, except for blaming me.

    As you may or may not be aware, she befriended my first wife Margaret (mother of Anton) and wedged herself between her and me. Later, in my custody proceedings with Mayette, she actively aligned herself with Margaret against me (signing bullshit affivavits in support of Mayette who was also supported by Margaret). Two years of hell followed but you have no interest in any of that.

    Franky was asked to stop meddling in my marriage affairs... she refused. It costed Ron (my friend and her husband) his long-standing job and his marriage.

    Just know that not only my business was destroyed but also the life of 2 children were adversily affected. Guess you cannot understand how.

    Still, I am not allowed to say anything against Franky. Where is your family loyalty? As with the other members, you have none.

    You then further alienated Michael from me, by betraying the confidence given to him during our visit to Michael (Hanny, Frans and myself). You justified it by asking for your money, which I suggested could be resolved in a much better way (which you ignored).

    Then you did a lot of shit-stirring between Hanny and Topy (just by influencing her with your warped opinions on RIGHTS and FREEDOM), causing that relationship to completely break down. Later, you did the same with Hanny and me.

    You and Hanny don't give a fuck should your brother step on a snake. As long as you can exercise your RIGHTS and FREEDOM.

    You and your sisters refused any dialog (except for more lecturing), so I created this website to give a complete picture.

    Then, before talking with me about this site, you created more shit by calling Hanny and Trudy before calling me (funny, before that Trudy was happy with this site). Interestingly you did not call Topy (well, you know what she thinks of you...).

    You and Hanny have been colluding together in various respects and once again in your last email you did your best to try and put down your brother by talking shit.

    Do you understand why both your brothers turned against you? (and why Michael refuses to pay what you claim he owes you)? Do you understand why you are not welcome at Topy's home? You cannot even discuss it.

    So, you do the only thing you (and others) have always been good at: stop communication. Same as Ma's character.

    You have no morals, no principles. It's all about your narrow-minded ideas of RIGHTS and FREEDOM.
    ABOUT HANS

    Hans emailed Antoon with some insults and promised not to reply to Antoon while this site exists. But this site is the result of him not responding to emails and refusing a meaningful discussion in the first place.

    • He still defends Franky, who had pissed him off ages ago and is married (not to Hans) since December 19, 2009.

    • In his latest hissyfit, tells Antoon that he needs phychological healing (see quoted email below).

    • Self-appointed speaker for other family members.

    • Inability to make a commitment to any woman. Always wanted to be 'free'. None of his 3 kids know their uncles, aunties, cousins, nieces & nephews in Australia & New Zealand. Extended family relations is not encouraged. The ultimate of selfishness, at the time of procreation his girlfriends surely did not have 'freedom' in mind.

    • That he believes he lives on after physical death is an indisputable fact. If you have a different view, you are a lesser human being, and you are told to read up on the issue.

    • Like the rest in the family, refuses to apologise for anyone or anything.

    • Forwarding important mail to his brother Antoon takes him years. Not interested in others.

    • But if it's about his money, he will betray the undertaking given to Michael that his address would not be disclosed (at a visit by Antoon, Hanny and Frans in 2011).

    • A letter for Antoon from a financial instituation was left lying around for 12 months before forwarding it.

    • More recently he wrote to Antoon that he found another letter for him (from a financial institution). But won't forward it or advise him of the contents. Later he told him it's a copy of what he already sent long time ago. Silly games?

    • Supports and encourages Hanny with her views on RIGHTS and FREEDOM even at the expense of family relations. Dialog on this matter is not possible. As a result it has destroyed the relationship between Hanny and Topy, and Antoon and Hanny. To Hanny, Hans seems to be 'God'.

    • Hans shows little or no interested in others, but expects others to be interested in his website. However, any comments or feedback on his website are not welcome (even though in earlier times Antoon helped him with translations - you will be rebuked with 'er word je niks gevraagd' (you weren't asked anything). Feedback on improvements are seen as 'afbouwende kritiek'. He was given feedback from professional website developers, but his site remains the same and overwhelming. Information overload to the extreme.

    • He wants to abolish the banks, and return to bartering.

    • He wants to abolish the stock exchanges, as he sees them only as gambling centres. Doesn't understand why markets exist.

    • Excells in antagonising others, then asks why they get angry.

    • There is no sense of humour, everything is dead serious (comes from Mientje).

    • He refuses to talk about any friends. Seems not to have any.


    HANS DE PSYCHOLOOG
    (En hij kent 'elke' andere psycholoog)

    • 12/03/2017 (Hans to Antoon):
      Je schreef eerder:
      "it is my pleasure to understand this family and expose them"

    Like Hans, Antoon is exercising his RIGHTS and FREEDOM (after all the shit you gave him).

    • 12/03/2017 (Hans to Antoon):
      Dit is wraak nemen, wraak nemen omdat de mensen niet zijn zoals jij vindt dat ze moeten zijn.
      Wat jij in andere mensen meent te zien, is projectie van wat er in jouzelf aan de hand is. Elke psycholoog kent het fenomeen 'projectie'.
      De enigste hoop op genezing is dat, i.p.v steeds jouw buitenwereld de schuld te geven, je in de spiegel gaat kijken naar jezelf.

    Typical attribute of an anti-social personality: Whereas this site is strictly directed at the persons mentioned, Hans applies them in general ("andere mensen", en "buitenwereld") on behalf of Antoon and accuses the messenger of needing healing.

    How you see me, is in reality yourself. Check your mirror. You might see a strange person. That is also the view of Frans.

    Perhaps you need psychiatric counselling.

    You don't seem to understand why Michael wrote you that card (mocking you on your birthday). It sends the same message as this website (without any words). A card you refused to show me for 3 years.


    NO BROTHERHOOD

    Hans said long time ago to Antoon that as brother he is no more important than other people. That remains the case today. And he still doesn't seem to realise that ignoring someone is about as rude as you can get. He habitually ignores emails, saying he only responds to "important emails". When pointed out that we have no dialog, he got pissed for using that term. He has no idea what dialog is.

    Long time ago he was told by someone that not timely responding to client's emails is "slordig". No lesson learned.

    Well, actually this attitude goes back a very long time when in the seventies he was staying with Antoon (holidays) in Broome Street for a while. Lengthy reading sessions on the balcony but never offering to help with anything. When booking his return flight, a large number of calls were made to travel agencies. No offer to compensate (calls are and never were free here, Hans. It's not about the money, but about attitude.

    LACK OF COMMITMENT

    Hans' lack of committment to his ladies and mothers of his children has caused a lot of conflict. Three different mothers to three children, and refused to marry any of them. It's a direct result of our parent's issues. Plus, as children we were always told not to do this and not to do that... no positive guidance. Once, in the presence of Antoon, he had a furious argument with one of his girls on that very issue. Hans wants to be 'free', never mind how the mothers of his children feel.



    About Antoon and Michael... Antoon had always hoped to make amends with Michael at some time in the future, but Michael was to be betrayed once again (see story about Hanny). Hans wrote directly to Michael demanding his money, using the address passed on by Hanny (that was the second betrayal, as Michael was promised his address would not be disclosed to anyone).

    Hanny offered the excuse: "Maar het gaat toch over het geld?"

    In the past Antoon asked Hans that if our old family home were to come on the market, please let him know as he is interested in buying it. Hans remained befriended with the then current owners, so he would likely know before it even goes to market. Anyway, one time Hans informed Antoon that the house was sold... Antoon asked him why he didn't you tell Antoon about it earlier? His answer: "Because I don't want to live there because of the memories". WTF... was he asked to live in it??? The only thing that concerns him is himself.

    * * *


    Hans beroofd door Michael ("De Lange"):
    • 05/03/2015 (Hans to Antoon):
      Die kaart was aan mij gericht
      Maar hij reageert niet als ik hem iets stuur
      Zal binnenkort opniew proberen
      Ziet er naar uit dat ik bestolen ben door eigen familie

    Ja Hans, welcome to the Verplak family... you're learning.

    Postcard from Michael (front)
    		Michael's postcard to Hans, titled:

    ABC OPEN - 500 words - A writing challenge

    TRUE STORY TIME:
    'THE DISFUNCTIONAL VERPLAK FAMILY'

    (Written 18 March 2013, 3 years prior to the creation of this website story).
    Postcard from Michael (back)
    		Happy Birthday Hans!

    62 years young.
    But you will never catch up with us!

    Enjoy your stay on this planet,

    from Michael and Judy,
    Snoopy dog, Bella (half horse), and the 4 sheep.
    Franky van Workum.
    		Franky van Workum, Hans' last known girlfriend

    Another girl Hans refused to commit to. She is the daughter of the family who bought our Family Home in Nijmegen.

    FOTO SOURCE:
    https://www.facebook.com/franky.vanworkum
    SHOCKING ATTITUDE

    When immigrating to Australia, he brought with him another girl (Franky, daughter of the family who bought our family home). She certainly did a lot of shitstirring in Sydney.

    At one time they were renting an apartment from Antoon (at a discounted price because we were relatives - they had asked for a discount). One time when Antoon was painting the huge built-in wardrobe and they were looking at him working, he suggested they could offer a hand with that. He was told "maar die is toch van jou...".

    After Hans returned to the Netherlands to take care of Pa, Franky was angry with him for leaving her (she didn't want to return). Sometime later he revisited Sydney with the intend to (possibly) bash up someone working at Duffy's corner fruit & vegetable market nearby my house, because he had been dating Franky. Well, the bashing up didn't happen.

    Later, it came to pass that Franky was looking for a place and rented the spare room in Antoon's house. All fine. One day Antoon returned from Victoria late at night and found Franky in his bed. Perhaps he should have kicked her out but didn't. After all, her relationship with Hans was over.

    But the next day she called Hans and told him she had slept with Antoon. Hans was furious with Antoon (maybe he should have been furious with Franky). Obviously, it was a case of 'a woman's wrath' and took revenge on Hans, through his brother Antoon. Well, she succeeded as it did seriously damage to his relationship with Hans, for a long time to come. Apparently he still has not come to terms with it. Allowing a former bitchy girlfriend to drive a wedge between him and his brother... PISSWEAK.

    CONTEMPT

    The same Franky also meddled in Antoon's relations with Margaret and again in his legal proceedings with Mayette.

    One time when Antoon's wife Margaret asked her for her opinion... if Antoon should pay in full for Anton's private preschool, yet refusing to tell Antoon which school it was. Franky's view was that Antoon should pay in full. Margaret subsequently started another legal case again Antoon.

    During proceedings between Mayette and Antoon, both Margaret and Franky signed false and bullshit affidavits in Mayette's favour.

    Franky was asked to stop meddling in Antoon's marriage affairs... she refused. It costed Ron (Antoon's friend and her husband) his job and his marriage.

    No apology received ever, by anyone.

    ANOTHER OPEN LETTER FROM ANTOON TO HANS
    The hate among us is never-ending... will follow us to our graves.

    July 2023

    For many years you have been very critical of me, in most of your emails you have been putting me in a very negative light. To my recollection, you ever only said one positive thing about me that I 'always' answer emails (yeah... unlike you).

    Recently you asked me if I would appreciate for you to 'drop in for coffee' during a trip to Australia. Of course I responded positively but when I asked in a telephone call what airline you would travel with, you responded with "Waarom wil je dat weten" ("why do you want to know?") Then repeated that. Of course I was offended and terminated the call. WITH THAT YOU STARTED HOSTILITY !!!

    Nevertheless I still made you welcome, provided you would show respect, no personal criticism and no lecturing on Steiner theories. But your visit has been very disappointing... let me tell you how...

    When I enquired about Michael's wife Judy, you told me that she had passed away and he now lives elsewhere with another woman. You told me you are staying with them but I am not allowed to know where they live.

    Everything is a secret. How long are you staying in Australia, Hans? The usual 3 months? It appears you are still here, but you only allowed one day here with Jacky and me (subsequently extended by one day).

    You told me that last year (around October) you also visited him, but told me nothing at the time. That also is very offensive.

    On the day of your scheduled arrival, I waited at the busstop (coming from Cresswick) for over half an hour but you were not on the bus. Then we learned you mistakenly took the wrong bus going instead to Ballarat, the opposite direction.

    Late that night, Jacky and I drove all the way to Ballarat to rescue you (from Ballarat railway station).
    Jacky prepared the spare room for you and carried the mattress from the shed to your room.
    Jacky prepared elaborate dinner, the next day breakfast, lunch and dinner on account of your visit (and again the following day).
    On your second and last day (while I was driving you around sightseeing) I hinted at you to buy lunch (fish & chips), but you were not interested. YOU said you did "not feel like it". Of course, everything is only about YOU.

    Usually when relatives or friends visit, there is something offered in appreciation, if not some help with things that need to be done, but not Hans.

    It was clear you came for one reason only: to ask me to remove you from the Verplak website, while staying with Michael who told you not to tell me where he lives. And you played his nasty game.

    Still no answer from you on why Michael does not want me to know where he lives. My guess is that after removing the protective sheets ('golfplaten') on my farm cabin floor (and put them on his own house), he may well fear repercussion. The effect of that trespass and destruction resulted in me never been able to enjoy my land as I should have, to this very date. You probably cannot understand that.

    And still hiding from his ex-wife Wendy and his kids?

    You are clearly siding with Michael. If you had one principled bone in your body you would not have accepted Michael's hospitality on these terms. Why did you take a photo of my house? To show Michael? Perhaps so he can pay me a visit again in my absence and do more damage? Or steal more stuff?

    Here we are having enough problems with skyrocketing interest rates, skyrocketing inflation, skyrocketing utility prices and council rates, all to be paid out of a part-pension which has remained virtually constant. I don't need this family shit resurfaced by you.

    Again, no need to give me your bullshit that it's all my fault (family not talking to each other) because of the VERPLAK website... if you can read you should understand that the website reports facts - facts that occurred well before the website was created. BTW, I offered to remove the website contents if we get together and agree to talk (and listen).


    I noticed that on Google Maps you have your house number (in Nijmegen) blurred. Trying to hide from the world? Very strange. But that (together with your other strange behaviour) would be consistent if you are engaged in criminal activities, such as drug-trafficking. When you next visit Australia, Border Control might ask you some questions, so make sure you don't carry drugs as the penalty is often 6 years in the lock-up. And I don't intend to visit you.

    Anyway, I am not prepared to play along with all this bullshit, and in view of still no satisfactory answer to my question to Michael (an honest answer to why he does not want me to know where he lives, via you), I will not remove anything from the website. Instead now (2 months later) I have decided to add this.


    As promised, below is a photo of what's left of my cabin, thanks to your big brother who you are staying with now. While I was in Sydney he removed the protective galvanized iron sheets which were to be used for the roof after the walls are up (put them on his own house that time) leaving the weather to completely destroy the timber flooring!!!

    But of course, just silence from you.

    What an arsehole !!!

    Antoon



    PS:
    Hanny's statement in an email to Antoon:
    "You have no right to ask anything in return for your contribution to my airfare"

    You agreed that her statement was 'very strange', but after years of bringing this to your attention did you let her know it was out of order? No. Instead you justified it then (responding with "VRIJHEID IS BELANGRIJK") and again now (YOU wouldn't like to have anything to do with spraying - not even knowing what product is sprayed).

    And so you go silent again.

    Well, Good-Bye brother... I cannot welcome you again in my home. Like Topy who does not welcome you either.


    Result of Michael's handy work, after he stole the protective roofing sheets from this work in progress.


    The man who doesn't want to exist... drug mule?
    • Hans is not to be found on the internet - anywhere (except on this site). Even as webmaster from NijmegenOnline.nl and photographer at many events, he does not want to show his face.
    • When planning to visit Antoon in June 2023, he refused to say what airline he would be flying with.
    • He refused to say exactly which day he would arrive. Just played a stupid guessing game.
    • He refused to be collected from the airport.
    • He refused to say how long he would be in Australia.
    • He refused to disclose Michael's address who he was staying with.
    • He refused to say when he would return to the Netherlands.
    • He used to have at least 2 facebook accounts (1 male, 1 female) using an alien identity (since removed).
    This would be consistent with being engaged in criminal activities such as drug running. Obviously he is concerned about something.
    CHILDHOOD FRIENDS: Noortje Keller
    De boerderij, 472 Berg en Dalseweg, Nijmegen.
    Hans wilde altijd in een huisje in het bos wonen.


    CHILDREN AND THEIR ACTIVITIES

    Danielle (Danielle Verplak)
      OCCUPATION: Unknown
      SPOUSE: Unknown
      GRANDCHILDREN: Unknown
    Joost (Joost Verplak)
      OCCUPATION: Unknown
      SPOUSE: Unknown
      GRANDCHILDREN: Unknown
      EMAIL ADDRESS: j.verplak@dronten.nl
      TELEPHONE: +31 140321
      EMPLOYER: Gemeente Dronten

      https://www.salesgear.io/p/joost-verplak-email-phone
    Maja (Maja Verplak)
      OCCUPATION: Unknown
      SPOUSE: Unknown
      GRANDCHILDREN: Unknown
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